Hi all, Here is my long vent/story. Thank you in advance for reading. About two weeks ago my 6 month old Golden Retriever Lucie (English Cream but I get it now
, was diagnosed with unilateral deafness due to a congenital defect where her ear canal is totally closed off. This was missed by the breeder's vet and also our vet for a number of visits until she had an ear infection that prompted them to really look closely. Learning this was heartbreaking. Not because she is deaf on one side because that seems pretty workable, but because it seemed like the missing puzzle piece that maybe explained so much of our/her struggles with a puppy that seemed to want little to do with us and growled aggressively and acted almost like she had been abused. She was in pain and couldn't hear us very well
My husband and I both grew up with dogs. Mostly goldens but also labs and a ridgeback. We also had a sweet wonderful lab, Tioga, who was our first baby preceding our 3 boys. Fast forward 15 year, our kids are 13,12, and 8 and sweet Tioga passed away about 2 years ago and we finally felt ready for a fur baby. We chose an 'English Cream' because we read the (hype) that they were healthier in addition to being sweet, smart, and spectacularly gorgeous. After losing Tioga to cancer who wouldn't want to avoid that if possible. One of our children has struggles and we want a BFF for him. I am also a therapist and I work with struggling kids and teens. My goal was to have our dog join me in sharing her love as a Therapy dog. We found Calm River Golden's website and spoke with Richard. Their site is lovely and he seemed kind and knowledgable. The dogs are touted as AKC, healthy, from Champ lines and all that. We trusted this meant all was well at their small operation was doing everything they could to ensure their puppies had the very best shot of a healthy life and a great temperament. I thought we were pretty knowledgeable and were making sure that the breeder wasn't sketchy or a puppy mill. Until things started going badly for poor Lucie, I just didn't know what I didn't know. I think most people probably don't. Sketchy doesn't have to look dirty or seedy and whether or not it is malicious is hard to judge. The obviously extremely knowledgeable people on this site have helped my understanding of OFA clearances, genetic testing, pedigrees and such to grow exponentially. I now know 1000% more and enough to realize that I still don't know much. I can now very clearly see how our breeder relied on my and other's lack of knowledge to make his less then ideal dogs seem like "the perfect couple". You have to know that you should and also how to dig a little to see the missing elbow clearances and understand that in all likelihood Lizzy didn't pass that test and that her full sibling has elbow dysplasia! That is surely not on the website and the k9data.com has almost no information and the link is broken for Lizzy. Our Lucie has also struggled with her skin since day 1. She was a little flakey when we got her (puppy dandruff Richard said) until one day she exploded skin. It was honestly like nothing I have ever seen. The vet said he had never seen anything like it. This snow storm of skin now reoccurs unless we continue to wash her with the medicated shampoo the vet provided. She actually has been to the vet for puppy shots, skin issues, ear infections, and not ear issue; 9 times since we got her 4 months ago. She has yet to be officially diagnosed with ichthyosis but i'm working on that. What i can see is that her parents are not tested (or at least the results are not shared) but that, based on the pedigree history her Sire Cooper has to be a carrier and Lizzy is 50/50. See, I even learned how this recessive genetic condition works! The fact that Lizzy and Cooper were intentionally bred without looking into this is deeply concerning. That we have told them we have a likely Affected dog and they plan to breed the two again is horrifying.
Upon learning of all of Lucie's issues CalmRiver offered us a 'replacement puppy' or 1/2 of her 2.5K purchase price. I would be lying if I said that we didn't consider sending her back. We did b/c that is our Vets recommendation based on all of her issues and her bx problems (growling at the kids and concerns that this could progress to a serious safety issue.) As we waited 5 days to hear back from Richard and her infected ear seemed to feel better and we got a handle on her skin, her behavior began to improve. We also saw the writing on the wall as to what would likely happen should we return her. Getting a new puppy from them knowing what we now know, was never an option for us. She still requires a CT scan and then surgery as there is a swollen and painful mass where her inner or some portion of it, seems to be. We are looking at vet bill and will easily spend 10K on her first year. I am beyond furious at Calm River and very concerned; both that other unsuspecting people may also suffer a similar experience, and that puppies who have higher then necessary odds of painful conditions will be knowingly bred.
I would welcome advise on how I might alert others to this unethical breeder. We are also looking for a reputable Vet who can preform the surgery in the San Diego area.
I really appreciate you reading through this and offering any thoughts you might have. If you are on instagram you can follow Lucie @CALm_River_Lucie
Thank you!
My husband and I both grew up with dogs. Mostly goldens but also labs and a ridgeback. We also had a sweet wonderful lab, Tioga, who was our first baby preceding our 3 boys. Fast forward 15 year, our kids are 13,12, and 8 and sweet Tioga passed away about 2 years ago and we finally felt ready for a fur baby. We chose an 'English Cream' because we read the (hype) that they were healthier in addition to being sweet, smart, and spectacularly gorgeous. After losing Tioga to cancer who wouldn't want to avoid that if possible. One of our children has struggles and we want a BFF for him. I am also a therapist and I work with struggling kids and teens. My goal was to have our dog join me in sharing her love as a Therapy dog. We found Calm River Golden's website and spoke with Richard. Their site is lovely and he seemed kind and knowledgable. The dogs are touted as AKC, healthy, from Champ lines and all that. We trusted this meant all was well at their small operation was doing everything they could to ensure their puppies had the very best shot of a healthy life and a great temperament. I thought we were pretty knowledgeable and were making sure that the breeder wasn't sketchy or a puppy mill. Until things started going badly for poor Lucie, I just didn't know what I didn't know. I think most people probably don't. Sketchy doesn't have to look dirty or seedy and whether or not it is malicious is hard to judge. The obviously extremely knowledgeable people on this site have helped my understanding of OFA clearances, genetic testing, pedigrees and such to grow exponentially. I now know 1000% more and enough to realize that I still don't know much. I can now very clearly see how our breeder relied on my and other's lack of knowledge to make his less then ideal dogs seem like "the perfect couple". You have to know that you should and also how to dig a little to see the missing elbow clearances and understand that in all likelihood Lizzy didn't pass that test and that her full sibling has elbow dysplasia! That is surely not on the website and the k9data.com has almost no information and the link is broken for Lizzy. Our Lucie has also struggled with her skin since day 1. She was a little flakey when we got her (puppy dandruff Richard said) until one day she exploded skin. It was honestly like nothing I have ever seen. The vet said he had never seen anything like it. This snow storm of skin now reoccurs unless we continue to wash her with the medicated shampoo the vet provided. She actually has been to the vet for puppy shots, skin issues, ear infections, and not ear issue; 9 times since we got her 4 months ago. She has yet to be officially diagnosed with ichthyosis but i'm working on that. What i can see is that her parents are not tested (or at least the results are not shared) but that, based on the pedigree history her Sire Cooper has to be a carrier and Lizzy is 50/50. See, I even learned how this recessive genetic condition works! The fact that Lizzy and Cooper were intentionally bred without looking into this is deeply concerning. That we have told them we have a likely Affected dog and they plan to breed the two again is horrifying.
Upon learning of all of Lucie's issues CalmRiver offered us a 'replacement puppy' or 1/2 of her 2.5K purchase price. I would be lying if I said that we didn't consider sending her back. We did b/c that is our Vets recommendation based on all of her issues and her bx problems (growling at the kids and concerns that this could progress to a serious safety issue.) As we waited 5 days to hear back from Richard and her infected ear seemed to feel better and we got a handle on her skin, her behavior began to improve. We also saw the writing on the wall as to what would likely happen should we return her. Getting a new puppy from them knowing what we now know, was never an option for us. She still requires a CT scan and then surgery as there is a swollen and painful mass where her inner or some portion of it, seems to be. We are looking at vet bill and will easily spend 10K on her first year. I am beyond furious at Calm River and very concerned; both that other unsuspecting people may also suffer a similar experience, and that puppies who have higher then necessary odds of painful conditions will be knowingly bred.
I would welcome advise on how I might alert others to this unethical breeder. We are also looking for a reputable Vet who can preform the surgery in the San Diego area.
I really appreciate you reading through this and offering any thoughts you might have. If you are on instagram you can follow Lucie @CALm_River_Lucie
Thank you!