Hi!
I'm the crazy girl with two goldens under 8 months...
Bennett (8 months) is higher energy, but manageable. I take him to the dog park regularly - or other forms of exercise (walks/ball). Lately, when we are at the dog park, he won't really come near me. If I call him over, he blatantly ignores me. If it's time to leave I sometimes have to have another person grab him/his collar so that I can get the leash on him. When he was a little younger he used to easily come to me when I wanted to leave. He isn't neutered yet. I'm wondering if this is just a phase, or if there's something that I can do to make it better? I've brought treats a few weeks ago and he didn't even care that I had them in my hand. Maybe I need a better type of treat? If so, what do you recommend? Added note, when I do call him my voice is always happy and up-beat. I don't get mad at him, I try to stay positive because I don't want him to think that coming to me is scary. But know that I'm fuming inside. It's embarrassing that he doesn't listen to me.
Another issue he has is he sometimes picks a dog at the park and just barks at him. It's usually one that has been playing with him and decides he doesn't want to anymore. Bennett is barking as if to say "Come on, keep playing with me." His bark is loud. I used to be able to get him to stop by re-directing by playing ball with him. Now he doesn't even care about that. Yesterday by the second time he picked a dog to bark at, we just left. I got too frustrated.
Lastly... we have our sweet 4 month old female. She's still sleeping in the crate. She doesn't have accidents in her crate at night. I'm curious when you all started letting your dogs sleep fee in their beds? Bennett sleeps in his bed/our floor every night. And it just sorta happened. I'm curious if there are signs that show they are ready to graduate from the crate or if there are steps that I can take to transition them?
Thank you!!
Hayley
I'm the crazy girl with two goldens under 8 months...
Bennett (8 months) is higher energy, but manageable. I take him to the dog park regularly - or other forms of exercise (walks/ball). Lately, when we are at the dog park, he won't really come near me. If I call him over, he blatantly ignores me. If it's time to leave I sometimes have to have another person grab him/his collar so that I can get the leash on him. When he was a little younger he used to easily come to me when I wanted to leave. He isn't neutered yet. I'm wondering if this is just a phase, or if there's something that I can do to make it better? I've brought treats a few weeks ago and he didn't even care that I had them in my hand. Maybe I need a better type of treat? If so, what do you recommend? Added note, when I do call him my voice is always happy and up-beat. I don't get mad at him, I try to stay positive because I don't want him to think that coming to me is scary. But know that I'm fuming inside. It's embarrassing that he doesn't listen to me.
Another issue he has is he sometimes picks a dog at the park and just barks at him. It's usually one that has been playing with him and decides he doesn't want to anymore. Bennett is barking as if to say "Come on, keep playing with me." His bark is loud. I used to be able to get him to stop by re-directing by playing ball with him. Now he doesn't even care about that. Yesterday by the second time he picked a dog to bark at, we just left. I got too frustrated.
Lastly... we have our sweet 4 month old female. She's still sleeping in the crate. She doesn't have accidents in her crate at night. I'm curious when you all started letting your dogs sleep fee in their beds? Bennett sleeps in his bed/our floor every night. And it just sorta happened. I'm curious if there are signs that show they are ready to graduate from the crate or if there are steps that I can take to transition them?
Thank you!!
Hayley