i’m having a dilemma which might be common sense to some people but I’m having a rough time. I’ve had three male golden retrievers, all neutered, all died of cancer related illnesses. Now I decided not to neuter a male that I have and he is six years old. I read that he would have more of a chance of fighting cancers if I left him intact. I also have a female, and she is about a year and a half old and also intact. Her first season came and went without much trouble but her second one was awful as my male was constantly after her and keeping them separated was difficult. The reason I left my female intact was because I read that I should give her two years to develop and get all of her hormones before I spay her, and then it would be a good idea to do that to avoid the chance of getting pyometra. Although she only has six months to go to the two-year mark, I don’t know if I can handle another cycle with her and my male going crazy. I have also read that I should allow her to have a litter of puppies before spaying her and it would be beneficial, but with all the unwanted dogs and especially now with the recession we are in I hate to bring more puppies into this world. My dilemma is what to do. Should I wait until a full two years, spay her now, or allow her to have a litter before I spay her? I know I’m being a little silly but my female is only about 53 pounds and she is very small and petite and still a baby to me. The thought of doing such an invasive surgery on her at this point is scary to me. What should I do?