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This has been the worst week and a half. My hubby of nearly 12 years has left me. No reason why. We have always been such a rock solid couple and have loved each other unconditionally. He suddenly stopped coming home from work about a week and a half ago. He wouldn't answer my calls or texts. He finally told me he needed time and space to get his head on straight. I have no idea what triggered this. I know that his job has been INCREDIBLY stressful lately. He works for a state run psychiatric hospital and the state is trying to close it down, so he could be laid off, but we don't know. He came home today and got some more of his clothes and took our bedroom TV. I can't stop crying. I don't even understand why he doesn't want me anymore. He is my world, my rock, my best friend. We have never even been apart in 12 years. I have barely eaten or slept in almost 2 weeks. I am so lonely. I work from home, so I'm alone in this house all the time. He doesn't come home anymore. I never in my wildest dreams thought we would ever be going through this. He has NEVER done anything even remotely like this before. He has always treated me like gold and always told me multiple times a day how much he loves me. It's like a switch flipped and he's turned into someone I don't even know. I guess he's staying with a coworker or something. He wouldn't tell me where he was staying. I have no way to even contact him because he gave me his cell phone and told me he would be getting a new one. I can barely even function and the dogs have no clue what's going on. In 12 years, I have never even thought about being with anyone else. I only want him.
Jen (Mssjnnfer) has kept me sane through this entire thing and has stayed on the phone all night into the early hours of the morning and is trying to find a way to come up here to be with me through this time.
This has been the worst week and a half. My hubby of nearly 12 years has left me. No reason why. We have always been such a rock solid couple and have loved each other unconditionally. He suddenly stopped coming home from work about a week and a half ago. He wouldn't answer my calls or texts. He finally told me he needed time and space to get his head on straight. I have no idea what triggered this. I know that his job has been INCREDIBLY stressful lately. He works for a state run psychiatric hospital and the state is trying to close it down, so he could be laid off, but we don't know. He came home today and got some more of his clothes and took our bedroom TV. I can't stop crying. I don't even understand why he doesn't want me anymore. He is my world, my rock, my best friend. We have never even been apart in 12 years. I have barely eaten or slept in almost 2 weeks. I am so lonely. I work from home, so I'm alone in this house all the time. He doesn't come home anymore. I never in my wildest dreams thought we would ever be going through this. He has NEVER done anything even remotely like this before. He has always treated me like gold and always told me multiple times a day how much he loves me. It's like a switch flipped and he's turned into someone I don't even know. I guess he's staying with a coworker or something. He wouldn't tell me where he was staying. I have no way to even contact him because he gave me his cell phone and told me he would be getting a new one. I can barely even function and the dogs have no clue what's going on. In 12 years, I have never even thought about being with anyone else. I only want him.
Jen (Mssjnnfer) has kept me sane through this entire thing and has stayed on the phone all night into the early hours of the morning and is trying to find a way to come up here to be with me through this time.
