I just lost my father, I have a broken right shoulder and am on absolute no duty per drs. Needless to say I am not feeling very Christmasy...my house is a mess - I live with 3 men who don't care. They would not even put up a tree for me. I can't drive, have been unable to shop...can't cook or bake. Yet my grown daughter who is married and been in her own home for 4 years...can't offer us an invitation there...insists on coming here. her hubby is highly allergic to dogs...I am in no mood or shape to entertain them, nor want anyone to see my house this way....its not just her either, the usuals want to come and I just can't do it. I want to go to sleep and wake up after new years!