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So we are at the 15 1/2 week mark and Toby has been quite the turd lately in many ways. I am assuming this is maybe an age related phase, but needing some advice on how to handle it, because I feel like what I'm doing must not be working well, as he keeps being a turd. He's getting better...

Ben has a taste for fruit and vegetables. It's a snack that seems fairly safe, especially since my husband never finishes his vegetables so we always have leftovers. This year I planted a tomato plant next to the back door. It's behind a short fence, but some branches hang over. Ben has...