Join Date: Aug 2017
Mentioned: 1 Post(s)
Quoted: 91 Post(s)
Thanked 286 Times in 160 Posts
This pain will never go away but will convert itself into something else. Sth else even more beautiful. What you loved about Max or what we love about anyone in our lives are not the pet, not the man, not the woman, not the friend but the "one " we are becoming with that specific being. We all have our angels and demons. Real love is when someone / or sth makes you become the best version of yourself. Our pets are tool for that. They prove us that we can be that loving, that caring with an angel like being. Are we so nice with everyone around us? Can we be? No way. At least I am not. Therefore, not denying the pain but embracing it will let you go through this period with more ease.I did, and lived an awful 10 months. Denying it , or ignoring it is refusing the beauty of your soul. Beauty always wins.
" it is only without beauty that we cannot continue, for there will be nothing at all to do in the world!" Dostyevsky /Demons
Both you, your husıy and Max have been very lucky beings. And since you have been many time witnessed the heaven, I am sure that you will like to visit there again and find a new companion when you are ready.