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What a simple, sweet and beautiful tribute to Jules. ❤
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Waiting for Part 3...hoping you are doing okay, enjoyed Jules new pictures at "camp"!
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Aw, Jules was such a sweet girl. God bless you for rescuing her and giving her a wonderful life.
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Jules -- part three

About half way through Jules' 4-week socialization camp (described in part two above), the dog psychologist called me and told me that Jules was definitely abused, probably beaten. She apparently also had bad kennel experiences at the breeder's facility, based on the psychologist's observations of Jules in the wire cage.

The psychologist contacted the breeder by telephone to try to find out what had happened to Jules in her first 14 months of life. She could not get a straight story from the breeder, except to say Jules had free run of the breeder's house, because she was one of her favorite dogs. The breeder gave the psychologist the same story she gave me -- Jules was "stubborn." I believe the family that had Jules for a while probably did the abusing, but we could never confirm it.

I do recall that when I first met Jules, she had a large and unsightly sore on one of her hips. If I recall correctly, the breeder told me it was a skin allergy (hot spot). However, when I took Jules to her first vet visit about a week after I got her, the vet said it looked like a "wound." I surmise that Jules may have been in a fight with another dog at the breeder facility. There were some aggressive male dogs there, and I think Jules may have been close to beginning her second heat cycle about the time I bought her. I got her spayed in August 2004, two weeks prior to her going to the camp. The vet surgeon told me there was no evidence of her being in heat.

I was so happy to see Jules on the day I picked her up from camp. She seemed so happy and confident. However, she still had a little way to go, and it took a while to get her to the 100 percent level of confidence with NO fear. A couple days after Jules got back from camp, my sister and her husband came to visit me for several days. I was disappointed that Jules acted a little strangely around my sister. She acted fearful around both my sister and brother-in-law, but only growled at my sister. It was a low, short growl, but not nice. She cowered from both of them and hid near me or behind large chairs and my sofa. She did sniff around their legs when they were not watching her. My sister, who also owned a golden at the time, really wanted to bond with Jules, and I felt sorry for her for not being able to - for fear of a fear-aggressive bite or nip.

I scheduled a quick follow-up training with the dog trainer (at the dog psychologist facility), and I was surprised to see how well Jules bonded with the 25 year old female trainer. My sister and brother-in-law went with me to the training session, and I walked through several commands with Jules. She was happy, confident and had a bouncy and sassy walk as we did HEEL.

It was apparent that Jules had some fears with middle-aged women. The trainer had indicated that she bonded better with men. Toward the end of the visit with my sister and brother-in-law, Jules was bonding better with my brother-in-law, but not so much with my sister. My sister did play with her outside, throwing toys in some short retrieval sessions. Jules was slowly getting more comfortable, but she had a way to go.

In March 2005, two friends of mine, a married couple, visited for about 4 days. Jules got along quite well with both of them.

I took Jules to several dog parks over the next several months. She did very well at those places, playing hard with other dogs and getting more sociable with people. I was very happy to see her get along well with younger kids too. She did not appear to be fearful around people. I can't recall her tail going down and her cowering any more during those times. She was slowly getting more confident and less fearful. She also loved car rides, and was no longer salivating or vomiting on car rides. It was a process. Each day got better

One of my regrets is my lack of strict training for Jules after she left camp. They provided me with a pretty detailed training regimen. I tried it for a while, but then I got lazy. Jules also got a little stubborn at times. She always had a problem with the SIT-STAY command.

I also gave her too many treats. She gained about 20 pounds in the first 12 months I had her. She ate good food, but I spoiled her with a lot of treats, rawhide, and other goodies in between her two healthy meals each day. I spoiled her with a lot of good stuff, like water beds and numerous toys (see attached images).

Another thing I noticed after camp is that Jules never jumped on furniture. Before she went to camp, she did jump up on my bed a few times (when I was not in bed). I can't recall one time in the 8+ years she was with me after camp that she ever got up unto the bed or any other furniture. She was pretty well behaved. She did pick up my socks from time to time in her first year with me, but dropped them when I told her to DROP.

Then came the second turning point in Jules' life. She went to a 10-day refresher training/socialization in August 2005, about 11 months after her first socialization camp. I took her to the same training facility. On the day I picked her up, she seemed so much better. She had come along such a long way since that hot July day in 2004, and I was so happy to see her get over her fears. I remember her in the car that day. She picked up a toy from the back of my car, and started to chew on it to find out if it squeaked. She loved squeaky toys. It was not a squeaky toy, so she made her own little squeaky sound as she pressed down on it. One of my great memories!

And it got even better for Jules! Part 4 to follow next week...




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So sorry for your loss of beautiful Jules. Thanks so much for sharing her with us. She sure was a special girl. Thanks so much for giving her a wonderful life full of love. I know how hard it is to lose them. Keeping you in our thoughts at this difficult time.
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Thank you for part 3! I love her story, and can't wait for more. Our Buddy came from a breeder that kept her dogs outside, and we had to really socialize him as a puppy. He was used to being with his Mom and his 5 brothers, no kids or many other people around. Through our diligence with socializing and training, he ended up being a wonderful, happy and very friendly dog. We called him our neighborhood "meet and greet" dog! Jules was lucky to have your love and patience, and help with her socialization. Awaiting the next segment......
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Jules -- part four


In the spring of 2005, about 9 months after I purchased Jules, I contemplated getting another dog. I felt that another dog in the family would further enhance Jules' socialization. I decided on a labrador retriever puppy and found a breeder about 2 1/2 hours from my home. In July 2005, I visited the breeder to look at their litter born on June 21. I decided to get a black lab. Part of the deal with the breeder was to provide some early training to the puppy.

On the day I picked up Jules from her refresher socialization (described in part three above), we drove straight to the breeder to pick up the puppy. I decided to go with another female, and several people warned me about how two female dogs would be overly jealous for attention. Well, it didn't work out that way!

I named my new puppy Mindy. Mindy did excellent in the crate on drive home. She whined and yelped the first 2 minutes of the trip, and for the last 2 minutes. In between, not a whimper at all. She was almost 11 weeks old when I picked her up, so the breeder had an extra time to provide some early training. Mindy had taken several car rides before I picked her up. Unlike Jules, Mindy was well socialized in early life.

When we arrived home, Mindy walked boldly into the house and inspected every room, every nook and cranny in the house. She was very curious. I then started thinking about Jules the first time she came to my home. I had to carry her into the house as she shivered in fear. She stayed in the kitchen and was afraid to make a move.

Mindy sniffed around Jules' water bed, then proceeded to piddle on it. I said "no" in a firm voice and guided her out the front door. It didn't take too long for Mindy to figure out where she had to do her business.

Within a few minutes, Jules and Mindy were playing with toys in the front yard. (See picture below.) From that point on, Jules was so happy, so social, so confident, almost too friendly at times with everyone. The addition of Mindy was the third major turning point in Jules' life! I'm so proud of my decisions to help Jules transform into a strong, happy, confident, and loyal girl.

Mindy and Jules were great pals for the next 7+ years, right up to the minute Jules passed on. They were always together. They always played together, even when other dogs were nearby. They had a very strong bond.


Mindy's first day at my home.



Below are a couple pictures of this wonderful pair. I took these pics in October 2005, about a month after Mindy arrived. She weighed about 16 or 17 pounds at the time, while Jules was well on her way to about 85 pounds, at age 2 years, 3 months.

Jules is "laughing" at Mindy's flopped over ear.



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Thanks for sharing Jules' story. I am sorry for your loss, Jules had a great final chapter to her life. Rest in Peace sweet Jules
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I am very sorry for your loss. Thanks for sharing your girl's stories with us.
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I have been waiting for Part 4! Thank you so much for sharing another part of her story. Loved the pictures, it looks like Jules and Mindy were great friends. What wonderful memories you have. She will be in your heart forever, always remembered and loved.
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