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Oh bless you both, I am so so sorry. I truly know how you feel and there are no words to comfort you but please know we are all here for you. Our love for our babies is unlimited and unconditional as theirs is for us and part of that is having to make that awful but completely unselfish decision to help them to the bridge and stop their suffering worsening. She will always be by your side, in your heart and in your mind, always and forever a part of you and your life. So many of us here have babies that are at the bridge and will welcome her and look after her, including my Cracker. There's no 'goodbyes', just 'until later' ..you have had so many life journeys together and now she will make another with your help but I know letting go is so so hard. I took a deep breath inwards of Crackers fur smell, knowing that I could keep a part of her with me and I can still smell her when I close my eyes and think of her. It sounds in your post that your heart is almost already making the decision and she is letting you know she's tired. I hope whichever way you decide you both find peace and that your time together now is extra special and sweet.
Thinking of you and already shedding tears. Big hugs to you both and more care and thought than you can imagine x

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Your words brought back a flood of memories for me..I am so sorry for you and your beautiful Tesia. Many here have gone through what you are now..My thoughts are with you and your loved ones furry and human...I know the great sadness you are facing but try and think of the positives..all the love and happiness she has brought you all these years..you will never loose that..
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Sending you & Tesia prayers,hugs and strength during this difficult time. What sweet gentle face she has !
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Tears in my eyes reading about Tesia and knowing how AWFUL you feel.
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Oh my, one thing is for sure, this girl is surrounded with love and I'm sure she feels it.

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Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this! It must be so heartbreaking for you!

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I'm so very sorry. Sending hugs, prayers, and good wishes.



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Looking at these pictures, I can't help but feel you still have time... she is such a beautiful sweet girl. My heart goes out to you - I know there is absolutely no comforting words at this time. I only can say very strongly that the moment you feel it is time, do it for her. And even if it is her time, she will always be with you. And keep her close in your heart positively and happy and carry on.

I was showing my sister the latest birthday video I made for Jacks and she began crying remembering those feelings she felt for her Sammy, as well as seeing glimpses of Sammy in Jacks especially visible in many of the pictures.

Things will be OK. Be strong.

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Tramadol makes Finny so queasy, and also my human friend Teri gets a very upset stomach from it. Do you think she could switch to a Fentanyl(sp) patch?

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So sorry, it is hard letting them go, but we all have to do it, because we love them so much, they depend on us to help them,you have done everything any one could had possible done,you will know when it is time.

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