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Is my puppy behaving appropriately?

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I'm wondering if my puppy is behaving appropriately at the dog park, and thought I'd post here to get opinions. The LAST thing I want is to be the dog parent that has the dog at the park that doesn't really play well with others.

Bodhi is 18 weeks old and has for some time played in quite a "bitey" way with others at the park. He will choose 1 or more dogs his size or bigger (never smaller for some reason, which I'm glad for! Lately he will even wrestle about and play bite dogs 100+ pounds-he has a 130 pound leonberger friend he thinks he can take, haha) and just bites at their faces, neck, ears and legs. He also wrestles with said dogs and will often rear up on two legs with a bitey face and just go at it with them. He has never made a dog cry out in pain, so while he gets ahold of them, it is with a soft mouth, and he lets go pretty promptly. This is also always with a dog that will play the same way right back-if a dog isn't interested in this type of play, Bodhi moves on quickly. It all seems like normal puppy play...I think.

What concerns me is he ONLY plays like this. He ignores balls, and will only chase to do the bitey wrestle thing again. This behavior is also really only at the park-the dogs we meet on the street he will engage with by smelling and just jumping about.

Is this just puppy play that he'll grow out of? Nothing seems aggressive about it. We also give him "timeouts" if we think it's getting too intense or if he's getting knocked around by a dog that isn't gentle enough. In that case we try to redirect to a dog that is more suitable, or we leave the park.

What has really prompted me to post this is that he bared his teeth and snarled at a Samoyed today that had him pinned at the park. This particular dog does not play appropriately in my opinion and ALWAYS goes after my puppy, who is smaller and slower than he is. The Samoyed bites too hard, and the owner is totally unapologetic and has no real control over him. I always leave the park when the Samoyed and owner come in, and this happened right as they came in-the other dog zeroed in on Bodhi and pinned him in a second as I was running over to leash him.

So...opinions? Normal puppy play or something to nip in the bud?

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Normal puppy play. If you ever watched a litter of puppies play you would think they were going to kill each other. Older dogs will teach Bodhi when it's enough. As long as no one is squealing or trying to get away, just monitor as you have been and give timeouts or leave if you think he is over stimulated.

Sounds like you are handling it right. And good for you for leaving when the Samoyed shows up. I guess having a serious chat with the owner is useless?

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I personally wouldn't worry about it, or interfere at all. Dogs find their 'match' in play style, and with experience learn to adapt to their style to the dog they are playing with, if they don't the potential playmate generally goes away. Some dogs like to chase and be chased, others don't, some like 'bitey face/wresting' games, others avoid physical contact.

He had every 'right'/reason to bare his teeth and snarl at the Samoyed who had him pinned, he was simply trying to defend himself in a situation that he felt threatened.

Normal puppy play!


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Normal puppy play. If you ever watched a litter of puppies play you would think they were going to kill each other. Older dogs will teach Bodhi when it's enough. As long as no one is squealing or trying to get away, just monitor as you have been and give timeouts or leave if you think he is over stimulated.

Sounds like you are handling it right. And good for you for leaving when the Samoyed shows up. I guess having a serious chat with the owner is useless?
That makes me feel so much better!


I had spoken with the samoyed's owner last month after her dog got my puppy by his back paw and bit down and wouldn't release him and she seemed as if she couldn't care less. I was pretty floored by her attitude. We leave the park or don't enter when they are there and she knows it, and she has never had the courtesy to do the same for us, although it is her dog that can't play appropriately.
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I personally wouldn't worry about it, or interfere at all. Dogs find their 'match' in play style, and with experience learn to adapt to their style to the dog they are playing with, if they don't the potential playmate generally goes away. Some dogs like to chase and be chased, others don't, some like 'bitey face/wresting' games, others avoid physical contact.

He had every 'right'/reason to bare his teeth and snarl at the Samoyed who had him pinned, he was simply trying to defend himself in a situation that he felt threatened.

Normal puppy play!
He does seem to find his match. And I agree that he had every right/reason to snarl-it really does make me feel better hearing that from someone else! Thank you for your response!
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