I have to agree with the other posters that say you may want to think about moving away from yur current relationship and try to have some time alone. It's hard when an old boyfriend who you still care about dates someone you know or are aquainted with. Just try to steer clear of her and anyone who knows them. Having this information isnt really helping you any, and just upsetting, so better to not know.

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A - the current bf needs to go. It doesn't sound like this is a real relationship just a guy to go out with. Stop wasting your time, if you can't trust him you can't have a real relationship.

B - it sounds like you have a lot of unresolved feelings for the ex and the 28 (whom you dislike) is bringing those feelings to the surface. I think you need to talk to the ex and clear both of your feelings. Once you get it out and he gets it out; you both will be able to forward. If he is still 400 yards away from I will bet money he has the same issues that you have. Talk and get is out and move on.

C - After all that concentrate on finding the right guy - he is probably right under your nose but you just haven't noticed him yet. Call your girl friends, get together and have fun. There is a lot of living to be done and you don't want to spend it with the wrong people. Good-luck.

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I agree, new bf needs to go. It's not that I don't trust him, he's totally the most trustworthy person ever. He has issues from his past relationship thats keeping him from trusting me, even though I haven't done anything. He's just very untrusting of women in general. A lot has to do with the fact that his dad badmouthed his first wife in front of him when he was little also. I'd like to smack his dad upside the head. He lives 400 yds away because he rents off my dad and its cheap. My dad offered him the house when we broke up because he felt sorry for him. I tried to talk to him. He basically told me to stay out of his life. Which I have. I haven't contacted him, nor have I set foot in the store where she works, but it also sucks to have to drive past that store and see his car there visiting her. Mind you my house, his house, and both places of work are all in a 1/4 mile radius and a radius that I cannot avoid in order to get to the main road, highway, anything. But he'll have to figure out for himself what kind of person she is. I'm not going there because all he would see it as is a plea for him to come back

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